Can anyone help with a difficult relationship problem?

My best friend of 30 years has those feelings for me and guess what? I will NEVER feel the same way about him. She doesn't 'owe' you a relationship because you've known her longer than this new internet guy. You've wasted 3 1/2 years of your life waiting for something that will never be. There are other women out there, many of whom you can love as well